Remember To Romance Your Love

It is not always enough just to be in a relationship. A relationship is like a muscle. Work it and it will strengthen. Give it no work and it will weaken. There are many ways to work on a relationship. Being a good listener does not always come natural but it is a start. Listen , really listen to what your mate is saying when you are having a conversation. Being in the present moment is important since people can sense when you are not really interested or listening to what they are saying. If you feel distracted at home get out and wine and dine your mate. Think of a romantic place where you can set the mood. Once again practice your listening skills and be present. Dress for the occasion because any quality time that you spend with your mate is worth the effort. The rule of thumb with matching chocolates with wine is, the more intense the chocolate, the more intense the wine should be. The more mellow the chocolate the more mellow the wine should be. The flavors balance each other out. Does this remind you of something? A relationship is also like wine and chocolate. The more intense you are the more intense your relationship will be. The more mellow you are the more mellow your relationship will be. Life truly is a celebration. Break out the chocolates and wine and be in the moment!