Happy Friday!
Friday, May 30, 2014
Tonight I am taking my daughter and her friend out shopping and maybe to a movie. I am very happy and just wanted to wish you all a happy Friday! Treat yourself to some fun. :)
Crafting & Perfection
Thursday, May 29, 2014
Today I am working on my bottle decor. I will post an update with a picture soon. I realize that as soon as I try to achieve perfection I fail. This is simply because I am my own worst critic. Perfection like beauty is in the eye of the beholder, after all, we do not all want the same things. Our opinions, tastes, styles are different from one another. How many times have you been rummaging through a garage sale and the person next to you grabs something and says,"Oh! This is perfect." You probably looked at them and shrugged your shoulders because the item did not strike you as perfect. I guess it depends on what you have in mind and what they have in mind.
My bottle decor will not be perfect, in my eyes, but it will be appeal to someone who is looking for something different. Will they think it is shabby chic? Will they think it is sweet? Will they think its perfect? Once again it depends on what their idea is of those descriptions are and of course what they have in mind for the bottle decor.
Here is a link where you can find some great bottles Bottles & Jars just for fun. I have no connection with this website. I just like some of their bottles.
My bottle decor will not be perfect, in my eyes, but it will be appeal to someone who is looking for something different. Will they think it is shabby chic? Will they think it is sweet? Will they think its perfect? Once again it depends on what their idea is of those descriptions are and of course what they have in mind for the bottle decor.
Here is a link where you can find some great bottles Bottles & Jars just for fun. I have no connection with this website. I just like some of their bottles.
Cutting Ties & Pursuing Happiness
I have had people in my life who I have cut ties with because they are not very good for my well being. Its just that they enjoy stirring up stuff in my life and others lives. Sometimes its cause they are jealous and other times its just to amuse themselves. Whether it be sharing your business with others ,that you told them in confidence, or trying to seduce your husband, significant other; these types of people just attract drama to themselves.
It is not a bad thing to cut ties with these types of people. Wish them well and just imagine that there is a cord going from them to you and cut the cord. You will find yourself feeling better and thinking of them less. Maybe you will even come to a place where you can forgive and move in a more positive direction toward people that inspire you and appreciate you.
You can choose to do whatever you want with your time but I choose to be happy. I choose not to put myself in those circumstances that bring drama into my life. If I have to I say no. When I feel inspired I embark on a new project or journey. Enjoy your time on planet earth for whether you do or not time will not stop for you.
It is not a bad thing to cut ties with these types of people. Wish them well and just imagine that there is a cord going from them to you and cut the cord. You will find yourself feeling better and thinking of them less. Maybe you will even come to a place where you can forgive and move in a more positive direction toward people that inspire you and appreciate you.
You can choose to do whatever you want with your time but I choose to be happy. I choose not to put myself in those circumstances that bring drama into my life. If I have to I say no. When I feel inspired I embark on a new project or journey. Enjoy your time on planet earth for whether you do or not time will not stop for you.
Back To The Work Week
Tuesday, May 27, 2014
Well that was a long Memorial Day weekend. I am glad to be back to the work week. I have the house to myself for a bit. Over the weekend I lost my car keys. Now I am having to drive a diesel stick shift truck. I am a terrible standard driver! My daughter was laughing at me all the way to school :} Hopefully I can do a better job of driving when I pick her up. I am sure my keys will turn up somewhere.
Last night it was almost impossible to get any sleep. We had a thunderstorm blow through and on top of that my dog would not stop barking. As I lay there I began to have thoughts of the past running through my head. Isn't it awful how that happens in the wee hours of the night? I have to remind myself that I am not there anymore and then I am so thankful for how far I have come. I finally outgrew my self destructive behavior. I am just too old for nonsense.
Fathers Day is coming up and my daughter is making my husband a picture frame with some pictures of them at a basketball game they recently went to. She painted it grey with different shades of blue trim. It has a shabby chic look to it and I think its fab. She really thought up a good idea for a gift, since he enjoys things that are handmade and is sentimental. He will keep it forever.
Well I hope that you all enjoy your week. Wish me luck on finding my car keys.
Last night it was almost impossible to get any sleep. We had a thunderstorm blow through and on top of that my dog would not stop barking. As I lay there I began to have thoughts of the past running through my head. Isn't it awful how that happens in the wee hours of the night? I have to remind myself that I am not there anymore and then I am so thankful for how far I have come. I finally outgrew my self destructive behavior. I am just too old for nonsense.
Fathers Day is coming up and my daughter is making my husband a picture frame with some pictures of them at a basketball game they recently went to. She painted it grey with different shades of blue trim. It has a shabby chic look to it and I think its fab. She really thought up a good idea for a gift, since he enjoys things that are handmade and is sentimental. He will keep it forever.
Well I hope that you all enjoy your week. Wish me luck on finding my car keys.
The Rain Has Finally Stopped
Monday, May 26, 2014
Well It rained all weekend. Now that the rain has stopped I have the humidity to look forward to. I did not get to go to any garage sales but there is always next weekend. Took the night off from cooking last night and just settled on sub sandwiches and movies from Red Box. I am a huge fan of horror movies while my family is more into comedies.
Did you see the horror move The Conjuring? It was pretty scary. It is based on a true story and thats what really scares me. Imagine moving into a house and having those things going on. I would probably settle for selling my house and if I couldn't do that I would probably be so scared I would camp in a tent!
Today I am going to be doing the usual dishes, laundry returning movies. I love to read so maybe I will find a freebee on Nook. There are actually alot of free ebooks that arent half bad. Anyways hope you all have a great day, where ever you are.
Did you see the horror move The Conjuring? It was pretty scary. It is based on a true story and thats what really scares me. Imagine moving into a house and having those things going on. I would probably settle for selling my house and if I couldn't do that I would probably be so scared I would camp in a tent!
Today I am going to be doing the usual dishes, laundry returning movies. I love to read so maybe I will find a freebee on Nook. There are actually alot of free ebooks that arent half bad. Anyways hope you all have a great day, where ever you are.
Its Sunday Again
Sunday, May 25, 2014
Well the week seems to have gone by so fast and now it is Sunday again. I sit and ponder what to write about today. Should I tell you about my ghostly experience of waking up and seeing a figure floating above my husband and I? Would anyone care to hear about it? Should I talk about mundane things such as the birds singing and what a beautiful day it is? These thoughts roll around my head as I sit.
My day has laundry, and dishes waiting for me. Couple cups of coffee and its time to cook breakfast. Does not seem to matter what I write here the day will roll on. Needless to say I am still grateful for this uneventful day, after all it could always be worst.
My day has laundry, and dishes waiting for me. Couple cups of coffee and its time to cook breakfast. Does not seem to matter what I write here the day will roll on. Needless to say I am still grateful for this uneventful day, after all it could always be worst.
Agonizing Over How To End A Relationship.
Friday, May 23, 2014
If you are agonizing over how to breakup with someone, I say honesty is the best policy. It does not do any good to procrastinate. Imagine if you had to jump into an icy cold lake. The longer you stand and look at the water the more you agonize over jumping in. Just jump in. (Please no one actually jump into a icy lake, its dangerous) Just have the dreaded conversation. I know that its no fun to go through the explanations and arguments but consider the alternative. The truth will set you free.
School Ending And Summer Starting
Thursday, May 22, 2014
I am happy that school is almost out summer. I have anxiety about my daughter getting a summer job. I guess the thought of her going into the adult world without me is new. She has to grow up, I know. I guess my own experiences have to do with my anxiety, but I have to remember that just because I had a bad experience with a supervisor does not mean that she will.
When I was about 17 I had a supervisor make a pass at me. He had to have been at least 27-30 years of age with a wife and two kids. I knew that he was upset cause he had recently found out his wife was having an affair, but that was no excuse for his behavior. I reported him and because of his horrible reaction he was let go. That was a long time ago, time to let go of that memory.
I will do my best to see that when it is time for her to get a summer job she gets one where there are responsible people who are accountable for each other. Maybe I will wait one more year before I let her get a summer job.
When I was about 17 I had a supervisor make a pass at me. He had to have been at least 27-30 years of age with a wife and two kids. I knew that he was upset cause he had recently found out his wife was having an affair, but that was no excuse for his behavior. I reported him and because of his horrible reaction he was let go. That was a long time ago, time to let go of that memory.
I will do my best to see that when it is time for her to get a summer job she gets one where there are responsible people who are accountable for each other. Maybe I will wait one more year before I let her get a summer job.
Robocalls and Telemarketing Calls
If you are sick of telemarketers and robocalls you can enter your number into the do not call registry. Once that has been done you can submit a complaint every time you receive one of these calls. It will not totally stop them but it will limit the amount of calls. Here is the link.
Do Not Call Registry
Do Not Call Registry
Trust Issues Do You Have Them?
Tuesday, May 20, 2014
I know that dating can be a nerve racking experience. What do I wear? How does my hair look? The list of worries goes on and on. I want to mention one specific worry and that worry is, am I going to get my heart broken?
Imagine you are sitting across the table from your date. In the middle of the table is a glass. The glass represents your life. You put your hand on the glass. He puts his hand over your hand in a affectionate gesture. You can either pull your hand away or allow it to linger there both of you sharing the warmth of the glass which is your life. Isn't that what we all want anyway is to share our life with someone?
If you are on a date and you are having fear thoughts, such as, what if there is another woman, ect., you are projecting yourself into that nightmare future. You cannot be in the moment if you are projecting yourself into a future scenario. Ask yourself is there any reason to doubt this persons intentions?
Loving someone enough to share our life with them is a brave thing to do. Make sure that you are projecting the kind, loving person that you are. After all no one wants to be with someone who is constantly worried that they are going to get hurt or that there is infidelity in the relationship. Communication is the key to a good relationship but if you feel that you are obsessing over your insecurities maybe you need to talk to someone about it. Just be sure its the right person.
Imagine you are sitting across the table from your date. In the middle of the table is a glass. The glass represents your life. You put your hand on the glass. He puts his hand over your hand in a affectionate gesture. You can either pull your hand away or allow it to linger there both of you sharing the warmth of the glass which is your life. Isn't that what we all want anyway is to share our life with someone?
If you are on a date and you are having fear thoughts, such as, what if there is another woman, ect., you are projecting yourself into that nightmare future. You cannot be in the moment if you are projecting yourself into a future scenario. Ask yourself is there any reason to doubt this persons intentions?
Loving someone enough to share our life with them is a brave thing to do. Make sure that you are projecting the kind, loving person that you are. After all no one wants to be with someone who is constantly worried that they are going to get hurt or that there is infidelity in the relationship. Communication is the key to a good relationship but if you feel that you are obsessing over your insecurities maybe you need to talk to someone about it. Just be sure its the right person.
Busy Day&Sad News
Monday, May 19, 2014
Today was such a busy day. I had couple of doctor appointments and errands. My phone has not stopped ringing and this is the first moment of peace I have had all day. OMG!
Anyways I got some sad news. I asked my podiatrist if Obamacare was going to effect him. He told me that yes as a matter of fact he will be out of business in probably two years. Insurance companies wont cover certain procedures and paying out of pocket is not an option for most people.
I found this very sad. He is such a good doctor.
I then commented that if doctors keep leaving the medical field we are going to have a huge shortage and that it takes time for a doctor to go to school ect. He told me that some medical schools are changing the GPA requirements. Instead of needing at lease a 3.5 they are now accepting 3.3.
Things are changing with Obamacare. Listening to the doctor I was left feeling helpless. I feel bad that he will have to find something else to do when he is already doing what he loves to do.
How many more doctors out there will also loose their livelihood?
Anyways I got some sad news. I asked my podiatrist if Obamacare was going to effect him. He told me that yes as a matter of fact he will be out of business in probably two years. Insurance companies wont cover certain procedures and paying out of pocket is not an option for most people.
I found this very sad. He is such a good doctor.
I then commented that if doctors keep leaving the medical field we are going to have a huge shortage and that it takes time for a doctor to go to school ect. He told me that some medical schools are changing the GPA requirements. Instead of needing at lease a 3.5 they are now accepting 3.3.
Things are changing with Obamacare. Listening to the doctor I was left feeling helpless. I feel bad that he will have to find something else to do when he is already doing what he loves to do.
How many more doctors out there will also loose their livelihood?
Dating Married Men
Sunday, May 18, 2014
Would you ever date a married man? I know several people who are interested in or are having a relationship with a married man. One lady literally said to me,"All the good guys are taken". Another lady justified her actions by saying that if he was happy he wouldn't be with her.
I feel that these women are doing themselves a injustice. Why be the other woman? What say you?
According to the website Truth About Deception 30-60% of all married people in the United States will engage in infidelity at some point in their marriage.
I feel that these women are doing themselves a injustice. Why be the other woman? What say you?
According to the website Truth About Deception 30-60% of all married people in the United States will engage in infidelity at some point in their marriage.
Battle Of The Bulge After 30
Saturday, May 17, 2014
So I am struggling to keep my weight down. It takes sacrifice. I have cut back on sugary snacks, and chips. I now substitute with fruits and veggies. If I crave salt I add salt to raw carrots.
Exercise is no longer optional it is a must.
Treadmill= At least 15 minutes of running 4 times a week.
This might not seem like much to some people but to me its more exercise than I normally get. Of course this will increase as I get into better shape.
I am seeing results and I have also started using a supplement that is supposed to aid in weight loss. So far so good. I am fitting my clothes better and I feel great!
If you need motivation just think of someone you want revenge on and then get on that treadmill and run! Living well is the best revenge. Look your best!
You should of course consult your doctor before starting any exercise routine or taking any supplements.
Exercise is no longer optional it is a must.
Treadmill= At least 15 minutes of running 4 times a week.
This might not seem like much to some people but to me its more exercise than I normally get. Of course this will increase as I get into better shape.
I am seeing results and I have also started using a supplement that is supposed to aid in weight loss. So far so good. I am fitting my clothes better and I feel great!
If you need motivation just think of someone you want revenge on and then get on that treadmill and run! Living well is the best revenge. Look your best!
You should of course consult your doctor before starting any exercise routine or taking any supplements.
Immitation- Is It The Sincerest Form Of Flattery?
Some people say to be flattered when someone copies me. Such as I buy an accessory and they go buy one in a similar shade. I don't find it flattering. I find it annoying! Just saying.
Happiness Is Saturday Morning
I enjoy getting up before everyone else on Saturday morning. I have the house to myself and its quiet. I can take some time to catch up on some of my recorded shows like Bravos RHOC, RHONY ,ect. Then its time to cook breakfast. This morning we had french toast. I dress it up with a side of fruit like sliced bananas or oranges. Strawberries are also delicious.
I was not always a morning person. I guess when my kids were younger and I felt I had to get up it was more of a chore. But now that my son is grown and on his own and my daughter sleeps in, things have changed. Its amazing how a perspective can change the way you feel about a situation, place, event and more. Funny how when your in the midst of a moment in your life you sometimes forget to appreciate the little things. I kind of miss the noise of little children running and screaming up and down the hallway. Well almost anyway. I dedicate this post to taking the time to enjoy your moments, as insignificant as they sometimes may seem.
I was not always a morning person. I guess when my kids were younger and I felt I had to get up it was more of a chore. But now that my son is grown and on his own and my daughter sleeps in, things have changed. Its amazing how a perspective can change the way you feel about a situation, place, event and more. Funny how when your in the midst of a moment in your life you sometimes forget to appreciate the little things. I kind of miss the noise of little children running and screaming up and down the hallway. Well almost anyway. I dedicate this post to taking the time to enjoy your moments, as insignificant as they sometimes may seem.
The Dead Files : TV Shows : Travel Channel
Friday, May 16, 2014
The Dead Files : TV Shows : Travel Channel
I am fascinated with all the paranormal findings on this show! If you have never watched it you are missing out!
I am fascinated with all the paranormal findings on this show! If you have never watched it you are missing out!
Went To A Movie
Well we decided to get out of the house for awhile. We went and saw the movie Neighbors. It was funny! I would not recommend this movie for kids since there is ALOT of sex and drugs shown. My daughter is 15 and it was uncomfortable to watch that movie with her. I did not realize that they would show sooo much explicit activities. Just fair warning. Goodnight.
My Routine Friday
Its a rather routine day today...so far. Its sunny and the birds are singing. Hubby is staying home from work to go to a doctors appointment. Getting the laundry done. Thinking about how to decorate some glass bottles I bought at a garage sale a few weekends ago. So many possibilities, beads, lace, wire, foil? I am so picky that this is probably going to take me awhile.
I know that creativity is perfectly imperfect. Seems like the less you try to get it perfect the better it looks. Just have to put some music on and get in the flow. Enjoy the process. Project to be continued.
Friends... To Be Or Not To Be
Thursday, May 15, 2014
I have not had the greatest luck with friends. Lets face it there really is no such thing as luck. We create our everyday reality one choice at a time. Sometimes its not the choice we make that ends a friendship but the choice or choices our friend makes.
I had a friend who was alone and lonely. I did not realize this when we first met. I knew she was having problems but never thought about how her situation could affect her decision making. She was fighting for custody of her child after a divorce. She was a working mother and I was a stay at home mom so I guess I thought of myself as the lonely one. Little did I know.
As we got to know each other better and she met my family it became clear she wanted to be welcomed into the family. She began asking questions about my husband and soon that was all she showed interest in talking about. Warning bells began going off inside my mind as I raced to make sense of our friendship. Were we ever really friends or was she on the make for my husband all along?
I ended our friendship. Strangely enough it was a blessing to have had this experience. I learned that people aren't always who they appear to be. I also learned that I needed to clean up my act and work on my marriage. Today my family and I are happier now than we have ever been. In a way I guess I should thank her.
I had a friend who was alone and lonely. I did not realize this when we first met. I knew she was having problems but never thought about how her situation could affect her decision making. She was fighting for custody of her child after a divorce. She was a working mother and I was a stay at home mom so I guess I thought of myself as the lonely one. Little did I know.
As we got to know each other better and she met my family it became clear she wanted to be welcomed into the family. She began asking questions about my husband and soon that was all she showed interest in talking about. Warning bells began going off inside my mind as I raced to make sense of our friendship. Were we ever really friends or was she on the make for my husband all along?
I ended our friendship. Strangely enough it was a blessing to have had this experience. I learned that people aren't always who they appear to be. I also learned that I needed to clean up my act and work on my marriage. Today my family and I are happier now than we have ever been. In a way I guess I should thank her.
Ebay Addiction!
I think I may have a serious ebay addiction. Ebay is so fascinating to me. You can find almost any little thing you want or need on ebay. Anything from baby clothes to computer software. If I see a tweet about an ebay listing its all over! Hoppin on over to ebay! Happy shopping everyone. Don't be outbid!
The Gift Of Tea
Marriage, do you still believe in it?
I have been married for 16 years. I can tell you like the path of life it has its ups and downs. I would not even consider being with someone who was not with me for a life long commitment. Time is precious.
More and more I hear young people say that they no longer believe in marriage. Have our young people become disillusioned with marriage? Are we seeing more and more single parents than ever before?
More and more I hear young people say that they no longer believe in marriage. Have our young people become disillusioned with marriage? Are we seeing more and more single parents than ever before?
Need Coffee!
This morning is bright and sunny, but oh do I need my coffee! Five hours of sleep is just not enough. Thinking about how fast the day is going by already and how short our lives as humans really are. Do you ever just wake up and think about that? If you ever want to feel small watch any show that explains the universe and how big it is.
Thinking about the big stuff helps me keep the little stuff in perspective. Life will always challenge us but as long as we aren't allowing it to overwhelm us we can tackle any obstacle. For now I am going to tackle the dishes, oh I forgot to mention I am a stay at home mom.
Thinking about the big stuff helps me keep the little stuff in perspective. Life will always challenge us but as long as we aren't allowing it to overwhelm us we can tackle any obstacle. For now I am going to tackle the dishes, oh I forgot to mention I am a stay at home mom.
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