Trust Issues Do You Have Them?

I know that dating can be a nerve racking experience. What do I wear? How does my hair look? The list of worries goes on and on. I want to mention one specific worry and that worry is, am I going to get my heart broken?
Imagine you are sitting across the table from your date. In the middle of the table is a glass. The glass represents your life. You put your hand on the glass. He puts his hand over your hand in a affectionate gesture. You can either pull your hand away or allow it to linger there both of you sharing the warmth of the glass which is your life. Isn't that what we all want anyway is to share our life with someone?
If you are on a date and you are having fear thoughts, such as, what if there is another woman, ect., you are projecting yourself into that nightmare future. You cannot be in the moment if you are projecting yourself into a future scenario. Ask yourself is there any reason to doubt this persons intentions?
Loving someone enough to share our life with them is a brave thing to do. Make sure that you are projecting the kind, loving person that you are. After all no one wants to be with someone who is constantly worried that they are going to get hurt or that there is infidelity in the relationship. Communication is the key to a good relationship but if you feel that you are obsessing over your insecurities maybe you need to talk to someone about it. Just be sure its the right person.